Structuring your texts properly when you’re in a text conversation with a girl is important too, especially if you have not been out on a date with her before. This is because your first text to her will be the first impression that she gets of you. If you screw it up, it could be hard to recover from this.
Texting A Girl That You Like
These are the few things that you should always use in the first text to the girl that you like:
- Use her name. People like hearing their own names being used, period.
- Your text has to make her think that you’re thinking about her as you type out your text.
- You must be interesting.
So, before you text a girl you’re into, you might want to look into some pick-up advice first. Every small part of a text should be considered seriously so that the final form will ideal. To make yourself interesting, you could tell her a joke you heard about today or if you haven’t, just do a simple search online for a joke. Yes, this may all seem pretty lame to you right now but it’s been known to work, so why not use this? After all, nobody’s there to judge you other than yourself (but you don’t count, do you?
Try not to act too cutesy for now. In fact, being fun and playful should only be done when you’re in a close relationship with the girl and never prior to that or she might lose respect in you quickly. Keep your exclamation points to a minimum and use the smiley emoticon sparingly. Also, when you text a girl, keep away from sounding down or depressed. Everyone has their own troubles in life and the girl’s life is probably filled with her own worries so being in a state of depression all the while can be annoying at times. If something bad happened to you during the day and you want to share it with her, you can tell her about it but try to keep optimistic in your messages. She might feel sorry for you but you’ll be able to maintain a strong front since you sound optimistic in your texts to her.
How To Text Flirt A Girl The Right Way
Thinking about flirting with her already? How about doing it over text? Flirting with girls can be simple but look out for some signs in the girl’s text before you proceed further with the flirts. When you send the very first text to the girl you like, and after getting a response from her, you should wait a little while before replying again. A good 5-10 minutes will be ideal since it creates the impression that you’re doing something else besides texting her. The faster you respond to her, the more likely she’ll think that you’re dogging her or just waiting around for her to reply your messages. Always keep some sort of distance from her so that she will feel unpressured and she’ll also be intrigued in what you have to say next. Making yourself too available all the time will make her take you for granted.
In fact, you could even use this to your advantage in your next texting session. If she texts you and you’re free at the moment, you could tell her that you’re talking to another friend right now and that you’ll text her back when you can. This way, she’ll be made to think that she’s not the only person in your priority list. Of course, after you do that, be sure that you don’t text her in the next hour or two. Do it at the end of the day before she heads off to bed (10pm would be a good time) and apologize for being busy earlier. This lets her know that she’s still on your mind but that you have other friends and events to attend to as well.